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Gen Y embarrassed to breastfeed

09 Feb, 2010 06:55 AM
A NUMBER of cafes and facilities in Orange have come out in support of breastfeeding mothers by displaying stickers that welcome the practice on their premises.

The Australia-wide campaign is designed to normalise breastfeeding and comes after a study by the Queensland University of Technology found Generation Y thought breastfeeding in public was embarrassing.

The leader of the Orange Group of the Australian Breastfeeding Association Verity Williams said she found the results of the study sad.

“I think the saying that breastfeeding is not a lifestyle choice it’s a health choice is right,” she said.

“We need to get the message out about how important breastfeeding is, especially in light of all of the money [baby] formula companies use to promote their products.”

New mother Emma Duerden, who is in her late 20s, was surprised by the study’s findings, however, she suspects that once they have a baby the survey respondents may change their minds.

“Once you have a child it becomes all about feeding that child,” she said.

“Also for me breastfeeding is a much easier and convenient that using a bottle.”

Jane Bigelow has a son who is almost four months old and says there are some people who simply think breastfeeding is not cool.

“Maybe if it’s not considered cool then they won’t do it,” she said.

“Many of these women don’t mind showing their skin if it’s for fashion, but it’s not considered cool or trendy to show skin when you’re breastfeeding.

“There’s also a lot of marketing around baby formula so maybe they’re not aware that breast milk is just as good, if not better, than formula.”

Mrs Bigelow said despite the fact that most people support breastfeeding, it is still not something you see everyday.

Young mother Katie Pyle, who has a 12-week-old daughter, said some young people are focused on partying and want to be able to have someone else feed their baby while they go out.

“They also might not want to give up alcohol, coffee and some foods,” she said.

“Everyone knows how good breastfeeding is, but some people are choosing to ignore that.”

In order to display the Breastfeeding Welcome Here sign local businesses need to provide a welcoming attitude from their staff and management, a smoke-free environment and room to move a pram.

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I am getting sick of the same argument that people, particularly those who are part of the Breast Feeding Association, saying that Breast is Best and any other way is considered wrong. I was unable to breastfeed my child due to complications and I was provided no support what-so-ever to moving to a bottle by anyone from the Breastfeeding Association when I approached them and was shunned and embarrassed for being in public with a bottle instead of presenting a breast. In my case it was not for convenience, but for the survial of my child. And I can say, quite confidently, that I am not the only one who felt horrible that couldn't breastfeed and it had nothing to do with convenience. Whilst, I am all for the support of breastfeeding and people feeling comfortable doing it in public, the issues should NOT be about breast or bottle, it should be about FEEDING YOUR BABY so that both you and your baby are happy and comfortable. Both breast and formula are perfectly good options. I feel that the "breast" feeding association should maybe have a name change and become the Feeding association and help everyone not just a few.
Posted by Steph, 9/02/2010 9:57:45 AM, on Central Western Daily
As a husband of a wife who had suffered similar problems as Steph, I was disgusted with the lack of support from such organisations and particulary the maternity ward nurses. After going through this process of bottle feeding our daughter we have both agreed that we would not even bother with the breast feeding route again (it allows me to be a bigger part of this process in helping...for obvious reasons :)......
Posted by Charles, 9/02/2010 12:27:55 PM, on Central Western Daily
i whole heartedly agree steph, it really makes me cranky when young girls such as this use the generalisation that mothers who put their babies on formula do so for convience andso they can drink coffee, go out and party and all the rest! WHAT A CROCK! i too had difficulty breast feeding i persisted for months and i was still unable to feed my child breast milk from my breast so for 3 months i spent hours on an electric pump after every feed and every spare second i had just so i could feed my child the almighty "breast milk" i took tablets that made me feel terrible but hey at least i had breast milk! what a load of cods wallop, i never looked back after putting her on formula. I, like steph has no support and was critisced for mixing breast milk/formula and bottle feeds, i got strang looks sitting in cafes with an electric pump hooked to my breast (that didnt bother me) and its great that peole are so accepting of breast feeding however how dare anyone critisces and makes such shrewd comments about mothers that feed their children formula! it is a generalisation and i would like to see how you would have coped young lady if you were in that situation!UNBELIEVABLE GENERALISATION
Posted by onya steph, 9/02/2010 1:07:44 PM, on Central Western Daily
I couldnt agree more Steph.
Posted by lol, 9/02/2010 3:25:45 PM, on Central Western Daily
In response to this artice, if you had read the study that was conducted by QUT, you would of noted that these comments are originally from Queenslander Gen Y's. As for the ABA not supporting artifical milk feeding mothers they are there to support Breastfeeding mothers and yet all mothers. Why didn't they give you any help in feeding your baby formula you may ask??? well why doesn't a vet give you help when trying to decide what hair cut you are going to get??? Simple.....they are not trained in that area!! Same for the volunteers who run this association, they are trained in breastfeeding information and support. If you so feel the desire for the association, Australias largest self help organisation to change its name, why not be pro-active your self and start your own Artifical Breastmilk Association. . As for the Breast is Best, its actually now Breast is NORMAL. What you are doing is not normal by any means. yes we do what is best for our baby but that doesn't mean it is normal. Come on please don't get your knickers in knot over the ABA they are volunteers just trying to help and educate our community and the mothers/partners who seek their help. Breast Is Normal!!!
Posted by Breastfeeding Is Normal, 9/02/2010 4:08:14 PM, on Central Western Daily
Despite the recommendation from the world health organisation being to exclusively breastfeed for 6 months, less than 5% of Australian mothers do so. Surely 95% of mothers are not 'unable' to breastfeed due to medical reasons, if this was the case the human race would have died out long ago. The issue is that there are other factors influencing women's decisions on how to feed. These factors range from out dated information from doctors, little exposure to women breastfeeding and a general bottle feeding culture (dolls, baby cards, children's picture books etc all featuring bottles) in our society. If we don't try to change the way thing are currently for fear of upsetting some mothers then more and more women will feel they have failed at breastfeeding, when indeed it is society's lack of accurate information and support that is failing women and babies.
Posted by Sorry to hear, 9/02/2010 5:09:20 PM, on Central Western Daily
As a mum of a well adjusted bottle-fed baby, it disheartens me that this article is seen as a breast v's bottle argument. Perhaps if you re-read it, you would see it is about breast feeding in public, not the suggested ire of bottle feeding. Personally, I believe I had the odds stacked against me with breast feeding but I persevered for 8 weeks before making the switch. I do regret not being able to give my son breast milk, but I dont regret having the choice - he was still able to be fed something and he thrived. I attended (and still do) meetings with the local breast feeding association and happily sit there with a bottle in my childs mouth. I have never felt uncomfortable nor my contributions invalid. I still believe that breastfeeding is best, but I don't choose to ignore the fact that not everyone wants to or chooses to. A facility like the ABA, with lactation consultants is there to help mothers as with breast feeding there is so much to learn and honestly there is really not much to learn about preparing formula, hence why there is no support group for formula bubs, but your local community health nurse would assist if you felt you needed assistance with it.
Posted by Jojo, 9/02/2010 9:55:19 PM, on Central Western Daily
You want to breastfeed in a restaurant? Go to a quiet, discreet place in the establishment. I do not need or want to see breasts exposed while I am eating. Have some manners.
Posted by CJ, 10/02/2010 12:57:25 AM, on Central Western Daily
I think some of the critics here have missed the point made by these young ladies. The point was to talk up breast feeding and its related issues (privacy etc), not talk down those that bottle feed. There are many good reasons why some women can't breast feed and most reasons are legitimate. There are others who like to party hard and do not wish to "contaminate' their baby's milk. This is reality! Keep up the good work girls in raising the profile of breat feeding.
Posted by Duck1, 10/02/2010 2:46:29 PM, on Central Western Daily
In keeping with the Gen y theme wikipedia states "what is considered "mannerly" is highly susceptible to change with time, geographical location, social stratum, occasion, and other factors" therefore dear CJ, you give me as an ABA volunteer purpose. And just quietly telling someone to 'get some manners' is hardly polite!
Posted by Sorry to hear, 10/02/2010 7:38:48 PM, on Central Western Daily
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BREAST IS BEST: Emma and Amber Duerden and Katie and Tilly Pyle at The Coffee Club, which displays the sign Breastfeeding Welcome Here.
BREAST IS BEST: Emma and Amber Duerden and Katie and Tilly Pyle at The Coffee Club, which displays the sign Breastfeeding Welcome Here.

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